by Tanja Fridolfs | May 31, 2017 | Relationships
Are you the “pursuer” or the “withdrawer” in your relationship? This may sound like an odd question if you are not familiar with these terms. Another way to ask would be; Do you chase your partner when things get heated or do you run from your partner when things get...
by Tanja Fridolfs | May 15, 2017 | Relationships
They had been arguing for half of their usual evening walk. Finally, in frustration, he said, “Just stop talking.” And that, was all she could take. She turned around and stormed off the other way. Walking home by herself through the dark streets, something she...
by Tanja Fridolfs | Apr 5, 2017 | Relationships
Each couple that comes into my office is unique and has unique issues. However, there are several things that I almost always share with every couple at some point in our sessions. These are some of the things I believe that all couples can benefit from and many...
by Tanja Fridolfs | Apr 5, 2017 | Relationships
We feel safe and secure in our lives when we are in a relationship that is supportive and nurturing. Many studies show that children who are securely attached to their parents do better. They are more able to handle stressful events and recover faster after being...