The Fixer Causes More Upset
Down Hill Quickly “Here we go again,” thought Joe as Anna walked into the room, noticeably upset. She sat next to him and started to tell him about her day. Anna shared some good points of her day, like getting a few things checked off her to do list…but she lost...
How To Recover After An Affair
Affairs Happen I’m not making light of this or saying that it’s okay, but this type of injury to the marriage relationship is more common than you may think. About half the couples I work with have suffered the repercussions of an affair. In so many ways this is...
How To Take A Vacation That Will Enhance Your Marriage
Here are some tips on how to take a vacation that will enhance your marriage. Plan a vacation that the whole family will enjoy. This seems like an obvious statement, but really think it through. I know I’ve planned some family outings, that my kids weren’t the...
Do You Chase or Do You Run in Your Relationship?
Are you the “pursuer” or the “withdrawer” in your relationship? This may sound like an odd question if you are not familiar with these terms. Another way to ask would be; Do you chase your partner when things get heated or do you run from your partner when things...
What Happened On The Walk
They had been arguing for half of their usual evening walk. Finally, in frustration, he said, “Just stop talking.” And that, was all she could take. She turned around and stormed off the other way. Walking home by herself through the dark streets, something she...
Three Ways To Improve Your Relationship
Each couple that comes into my office is unique and has unique issues. However, there are several things that I almost always share with every couple at some point in our sessions. These are some of the things I believe that all couples can benefit from and many couples struggle with.
Why Can’t We Stop Fighting?
We feel safe and secure in our lives when we are in a relationship that is supportive and nurturing. Many studies show that children who are securely attached to their parents do better.